On the road, it is never the question of whose mistake, but it is the question of whose life! The responsibility of not hitting and not being hit, both are yours and yours alone. On the road, it you want to be alive YOU have to make the adjustments. Blaming makes no sense.
Similarly, in the road called life, In dealing with the traffic called relationships, It is not the question of whose mistake, But it is the question of whose life. In relationships too, if you want happiness YOU have to make the adjustments. Here too, blaming makes no sense.